terça-feira, outubro 29, 2024

 

Roller Coaster


Michael tells me

dating is like a roller coaster

fun – but a lotta ups and downs

 

*

 

while at dinner

the glowing thing in my pocket

coyly whirs against my thigh

and a person I have met once

now thousands of miles away

has sent me parts of her body

we used to whisper about at sleepovers

 

*

 

Dan tells me about his wife

uses words like happiness

without caveat

or attached guru

 

but still cannot help asking about

what it must be like

to discover a whole body

to gently approach the shore

of a willing continent

that does not ask to build a shelter

 

*

 

I wake up next to a body

we chant words

that sound mostly like

I am not lonely now

 

now clothed

she says plainly

I have some other errands to run

& I think on the small cruelty of the word other

 

*

 

my family & I visit Disneyland

I ride the coaster

I was too young for as a child

 

I think less

about the brightly colored cars

charging up toward the sky

& racing down toward the ground

 

more than audible thrill

as we come

quickly around some corner

we cannot see past

 

but even more, the muted shuffling

as we exit

remembering to not leave

anything important behind

 

the quiet

as we turn our back

wondering where to go next

 

I think I am ready to go home

my sister says

 

I nod

 

 

Phil Kaye in Date & Time



sábado, setembro 07, 2024

 

‘Come on, Hoda. Don’t rain on my parade. I’m a grown-up now and I need to live according to a formula. I want to get married and I want to have kids. Besides, we’re already engaged.’

‘But marriage isn’t supposed to be built upon a formula.’

‘Sure it is. You and your husband Tarek have an agreement. If he cheats on you, you look the other way.’

‘Yes, we have an agreement, and I may turn a blind eye to his mistakes. But I know that he loves me as much as I love him, even more. He treats me very well, and I love that.’

‘I’m going to love Sulayman, too. He’s great. I understand him even more. I have no problem with marriage.’

‘There’s a big difference between loving someone and accepting them.’

‘There’s a passageway between love and acceptance that one has to keep open. Sometimes you don’t even notice that it’s open. And with love, the other awakens something inside of you, something you nurture as much as necessary. Just like a flower, and you know that it only lives as long as you water it.’

‘What are you talking about? I can’t just decide how much to water my love. Love is as irrepressible and as undammable as a raging river. Maybe you’re talking about one kind of relationship. There’s companionship and affection, but there’s a difference. The love that I’m talking about comes with passion and dizziness, with lots of words, true romance and real adoration.’

‘Look, Hoda. I don’t want to leave the window fully open anymore, to let the curtains flap in the breeze. It’s true that if you open a window the air gets a bit more pleasant, but everything can get all messed up, all your stuff can get blown around. You might get cold, too. No, I’d rather just open the window a little bit or else shut it and run the air conditioning by remote control, to just sit here and feel safe. It’s much easier when things are clearly defined, when you know exactly where you stand. If you open the window just a little, you can count the stars, but you go out under a vast sky, you can’t count them all, you get lost, you get all confused.’

‘But there are more beautiful things. If love leaves you exposed under a vast sky, can’t you see how many stars there are up there?’


Alawiya Sobh, This thing called love (translated by Max Weiss), p. 207-208